The above line comes from a novel about Viet Nam, "Matterhorn". That line started me thinking about our lives right now. Yesterday, 4/19, I visited two people who are dying. Neither will live past this week. Both are younger (one is much younger) than me. What inspired me was to see the loving care they received from their famillies and friends. Both of these people have been sick a long time. People have bathed them, fed them, talked/signed with them when they could not sleep, held their hands, rubbed them with lotion, changed their diapers, and stayed with them throughout terrible days of suffering, then coma, then hospitalizations, then more suffering. Yet, there have also been other family members and "friends"(???) who did nothing except complain, make excuses why they could not help, or basically chose to disappear. "Everybody dies, but not everybody cares."
In the Gospel last Sunday, John 21:1-19, Jesus gives us a great example of "caring". The Apostles(the ones who ran away, denied Jesus) are fishing. Jesus is on the shore, and makes breakfast for them.They don't even say thanks, but Jesus loves them enough to feed them! Then He tells them to go "feed" others. A few thoughts:
1) Who do YOU know needs "care"? You don't have to be a doctor, a nurse. All of us have some skills to bring: we can cook a meal OR wash the dishes; we can mow the lawn, take out the garbage, go shopping for that person or family, or do their laundry. You can hold the sick person's hand, rub lotion on their dry skin, put vaseline on their chapped lips, or just sit - sit - with them so the person knows he/she is not alone.
2) The State of Illinois and every other government is cutting back, reducings ervices, "downsizing". So, we can feel that "there's nothing I can do.." Wrong. Theres is ALWAYS something we can do. Putting away winter clothes and taking otu summer clothes. Stop! How often did you wear that winter coat or sweater? Do you really need ALL those clothes each year? Why not donate some of the winter clothes to Salvation Army or St. Vincent dePaul Society?
Most large food stores allow you to donate food (by adding a dollar or two to your food bill). Think about the pop, liquor, candy, desserts you are buying. You can't add a couple of bucks to your bill so that others can get healthy food to eat???
3) There are some very bad people in the deaf community. They are deaf or are hearing friends/family members. These adults molest children, pass child pornography to their friends on the internet, and sell drugs. People in the deaf community KNOW who these people are. However, they don't call the police or report these people on the "Hotline." Why? Because they are deaf or related to deaf. These people are destroying the deaf community.. They don't care about deaf people. They only think about themselves. Caring about the children of our community means calling the police, the State of Illinois "Hotline" and reporting these people.